Mittwoch, 23. Juni 2010

Why do huge breasts attract me?

I just contributed some thoughts in a forum and why not share them her also:


To me, these aspects are of relevance:

- deviance, standing out from the norm
- sensuality, a focus on the physical body
- emotional sensitivity for symbolic power and interpersonal processes

First: I´m generally attracted to stuff that defies the norm, like Lady Gaga and Beth Ditto or Slayer, the Marquis de Sade, monster movies...

Second: I am fascinated by the body/mind duality of the human existence - my existence. In a way, I am an animal, I am a piece of flesh ( and bones...). And so are others. I can talk to my girlfriend about abstract theories and I can grab her. Prominent flesh puts the focus on the body, the animal aspect of our being. And prominent breasts especially have sexual and/or nurturing connotations.

Third: body parts can be seen anatomical, but also on a symbolic level, they can be a means to express and execute power over others, or they can be presented as a gift... craving, desire, attention, power... a certain tension, an emotional disbalance is important for me. Big breasts can be just a nuisance for a girl or woman - for good reasons - or something they hardly care about, and then they loose most of their erotic power they could have on me.

Montag, 21. Juni 2010

Fritz



I love Rosalba "Fritz" Martinez.

Sin or what?



I like this picture. It looks wrong in just the right way.

I do not smoke myself, I don´t even drink alcohol.

But I like the gesture, like "we don´t give a damn".

It´s not even about freedom, about indulging without any consequences. The bloated bellies clearly show effects.

The interesting point is the lack of guilt, even pride in the self with all it´s flaws.