Why do huge breasts attract me?

I just contributed some thoughts in a forum and why not share them her also:


To me, these aspects are of relevance:

- deviance, standing out from the norm
- sensuality, a focus on the physical body
- emotional sensitivity for symbolic power and interpersonal processes

First: I´m generally attracted to stuff that defies the norm, like Lady Gaga and Beth Ditto or Slayer, the Marquis de Sade, monster movies...

Second: I am fascinated by the body/mind duality of the human existence - my existence. In a way, I am an animal, I am a piece of flesh ( and bones...). And so are others. I can talk to my girlfriend about abstract theories and I can grab her. Prominent flesh puts the focus on the body, the animal aspect of our being. And prominent breasts especially have sexual and/or nurturing connotations.

Third: body parts can be seen anatomical, but also on a symbolic level, they can be a means to express and execute power over others, or they can be presented as a gift... craving, desire, attention, power... a certain tension, an emotional disbalance is important for me. Big breasts can be just a nuisance for a girl or woman - for good reasons - or something they hardly care about, and then they loose most of their erotic power they could have on me.